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How to Upgrade MacBook Pro RAM, Early 2009, 17-Inch: EveryMac.com
Apple MacBook Pro 13-inch Mid 2009 - 2.53GHz Core 2 Duo Laptop RAM Memory | Kingston
CMS 8GB (2X4GB) DDR3 8500 1066MHZ Non ECC SODIMM Memory Ram Upgrade Compatible with Apple® MacBook Pro Core 2 Duo 2.8 17" Mid-2009 - A35 at Amazon.com
A-Tech 16GB (2x8GB) RAM for Apple MacBook Pro (Early/Late 2011), iMac (Mid 2010 27 inch 4-Core, Mid 2011 21.5/27 inch), Mac Mini (Mid 2011) | DDR3 1333MHz PC3-10600 204-Pin SODIMM Memory Upgrade Kit at Amazon.com
OWC 6GB (2GB + 4GB) PC8500 DDR3 1066MHz SO-DIMMs Memory Compatible with Late 2008, Early 2009, Early 2010 MacBook, MacBook Pro Unibody Models, 2009/2010 Mac Mini, 2009 iMac Models